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Louise Haynes's avatar

I once heard a long time ago that if you want world peace, start with your own family members. Ooh, tough one, that!

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Mmerikani (Swahili & English)'s avatar

That IS tough. Does keeping distance to keep the peace count? Lol. I think it can work! Country sovereignty and borders and people sovereignty and borders and the times we come together our formality keeps it civil. :)

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Louise Haynes's avatar

Ha ha ha. IMHO, if people share the same values, they will get along famously. If they don't, that's where the problems start. The formality you mentioned means keeping the discussion to one in which we don't touch on the differences of values. Is that "diplomacy"? Maybe. Keeping the peace means acknowledging the differences in values while maintaining a certain respect for the other party/country, etc.

In your quote, Hoffer said, "...depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves.” Hmm... wonder if that includes respecting oneself and accepting that we are not always right.

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